I’m part of the most wonderful group – half the population is – and it’s called the girl tribe. While strong women lift each other up, there are a few vultures who fuck other women instead. How? They steal men from other women. They generally stab other women in the back because they only find their worth in a man – and taking them from other women.
I know because it’s happened to me. I didn’t know it at the time, but I sure as hell know it now. It hurts, for sure, but I’ve been through such a transformation in the last year and a half that I know who the fuck I am. I’m strong, resilient, valuable, worthy and magic AF. I’ve worked so hard on myself that I actually feel sorry for women who have such low self esteem that they only THINK they are high-value women.
A predatory woman needs a weak man to succumb to whatever temporary appeal she may have. In reality, she lures him in. He’s helpless, and maybe he’s thinking that the new shiny bitch is better than the loyal woman he left behind. I think that’s what hurt me the most – how easily my man was lured away by someone who was the complete antitheses to me. (Be sure to read my blog next Monday for an update.)
In reality, true-high value women respect relationships and don’t even consider breaking them up. Strong women would rather be single than steal another woman’s man. Strong women have a true moral compass, a true north, and live authentic lives. Strong women support strong women instead of stabbing others in the back.
I choose to support the girl tribe to the end and lift others up. After all, behind every successful woman is a tribe of other successful women who have her back. Join me.
You are so eloquent in your words and so succinct with emotions. It happens again to her…it becomes a pattern. He wasn’t worth it in the first place.
Watch for my blog next week for the next chapter!