In my blog last week, I shared my anger about how my partner and I broke up. I thought it was just a break up. Unbeknownst to me, he stepped out on me and let himself be lured away by a vulture. Fast forward almost a year-and-a-half, and he came back to me fully and completely. He stepped forward to apologize to me and that he wanted another chance. I hadn’t stop loving him, so I was open to a new start. All of this unfolded according to divine timing – which is why we feel so blessed.
What we had the 8 years prior was dead. We both agreed about that. I also told him I wasn’t going to fill his empty spaces. It became clear, quickly, that it wasn’t the case. He never stopped loving me as I still loved him.
I was open to a new start because he came to me honestly, apologetically and lovingly. He answered every question and openly addressed every concern. Anything I asked him to do from getting his key back to blocking the vulture on every social media site and his phone — one request from me and it was done.
As of publication of this blog, we’ve been together for a month already – and it’s bliss! Yes, we’ve had some very hard conversations given his huge mistake by getting involved in a fucked up relationship over the last year with the vulture, and I’ve dated quite a bit. The good news is that we both grew as individuals and learned tough lessons that made us stronger together already.
I didn’t steal him from anyone – that’s not in my character. He had time before he came back to me. That’s how you build a true, strong relationship – honestly, openly and from the heart and soul. He’s more committed to me than ever and won’t risk what we have again. It’s forever and the best is yet to come!
